Decisions, decisions, decisions… from the moment that little one enters our lives we are faced with countless parenting decisions. Cloth vs. disposable. Bottle vs. breastfeeding. Public school vs. private school vs. homeschool. The list goes on and on. One of the most valuable decisions you can make, however, is to get into agreement with your spouse regarding parenting issues. If both parents are not on the same page when it comes to matters regarding the kids, then chaos will quickly ensue, particularly in the area of discipline.
This is not a one-time chat. Rather, this will need to be an on-going conversation between both parents. As that little one grows, the decisions become more complicated and often have greater consequences. A unified approach really does make daily life easier and provides much-needed security for your family.
In theory, this all sounds so civilized: both parents coming together on equal terms to discuss what is in the best interest of their child. In practice, this can be incredibly challenging. Especially when parents are divorced or if you are parenting in a blended family. There are no easy answers in these situations. Depending on your circumstance, it might be necessary to seek professional help.
If it is at all possible, find a way to get into agreement as parents. It will be well worth the effort!