Almost from the time a baby is born, family members will often try to determine which characteristics of the child should be attributed to what side of the family. “She has her mother’s eyes.” “He has his father’s smile.” “She’s stubborn, just like Great Aunt Lulu.” Over the years I have been told that I am a pretty even mix of my parents. Sometimes this is a compliment, other times it is a great source of frustration! There have been many mornings I have looked in the mirror and saw my mother’s face looking back at me. Creepy! Lately I