The term “control freak” is widely used in our culture. Some even wear it as a badge of honor. While self-control is a fruit of the Spirit, the control I’m referring to definitely is not. This desire to be in charge of every little thing can quickly become a stronghold in our lives. Soon we begin to try and manipulate others to get our own way. What we thought would bring us peace actually causes anxiety and chaos. I believe that this desire to be in control is actually rooted in fear. We like our ducks to be in a