How do your kids know that you love them?  Do they know because you work hard every day to make sure their needs (and many of their wants) are met?  Or is it because you clean up countless messes and do never-ending loads of laundry for them?   Do you say “I love you” every night when you tuck them into bed?  Yes, these are all wonderful ways to show our kids that we love them.  But today I want to share a little secret with you that I actually learned from my mother long before I had children of my