The term “control freak” is widely used in our culture. Some even wear it as a badge of honor. While self-control is a fruit of the Spirit, the control I’m referring to definitely is not. This desire to be in charge of every little thing can quickly become a stronghold in our lives. Soon we begin to try and manipulate others to get our own way. What we thought would bring us peace actually causes anxiety and chaos.
I believe that this desire to be in control is actually rooted in fear. We like our ducks to be in a row because we’re afraid of being caught off-guard. We try to get others to do things our way because we’re afraid it won’t turn out right otherwise. We do not delegate because we’re afraid it won’t get done. We run ourselves ragged trying to do it all and we fall apart if it doesn’t turn out the way we planned.
Life is full of so many unknowns. We often over-compensate by trying to exert control over what we do know. However, even that can change in an instant. But there is One who knows the beginning from the end. Doesn’t it just make more sense to let Him be in control? When we live fully submitted to God, then we don’t have to be in control of it all.
Letting go of control allows God to truly work in us and through us. Experience the rest and peace that comes from giving God control of your life today!
“And so, dear brothers and sisters, I plead with you to give your bodies to God because of all he has done for you. Let them be a living and holy sacrifice—the kind he will find acceptable. This is truly the way to worship him. Don’t copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will learn to know God’s will for you, which is good and pleasing and perfect.” ~Romans 12:1-2