We live in a scary world full of all kinds of danger that could potentially threaten our kids. Just watch the evening news… child abductions, child abuse, all kinds of accidents, outbreaks of contagious diseases, and even murder. The reality of it all can be so overwhelming! We can easily find ourselves in the grip of fear. Fear that can take us beyond common sense and put us into a tail spin of extreme overprotection. Several years ago, while at a church women’s retreat, I learned a tremendous lesson. One of the women there shared about how we should not
Category: parenting
The 2003 remake of the movie Freaky Friday with Jamie Lee Curtis and Lindsay Lohan has been a family favorite for several years now. The movie begins with the typical crazy morning rush to get the family out the door and off to school and work. As the mom is dropping off her teenage daughter at school, she calls out the window after her, “Make good choices!” The daughter sighs and rolls her eyes as she is walking towards the building. After we had seen this movie for the first time, I would often say this phrase to my girls
Children are naturally self-centered beings. Because they are always growing and learning, it comes as no surprise that their focus is often primarily on themselves. However, left unchecked, the tendency towards being self-centered quickly leads to selfish and demanding behavior. How do we combat this? I think the best way is by helping our children to develop an attitude of gratitude. Gratitude is defined as the quality of being thankful or appreciative. Learning to be thankful puts the focus on what we have, rather than on what we don’t have. Since whatever we focus on gets bigger, we need to
O-B-E-Y obey your mom and dad; O-B-E-Y it makes them very glad. Listen to the words they say, obey your parents every day; O-B-E-Y obey your mom and dad. We used to sing this song every day with our girls when they were little (and on a few occasions as a good reminder even when they were not so little). Parents, why is it so important that our children obey us? Well, an obvious reason is to keep them safe. Additionally, it is also important for our kids to learn to submit to authority because they will have numerous situations
Our children are always watching us, so let’s model for them a lifestyle of worship. Happy Sunday everyone! “Honor the Lord for the glory of His name. Worship the Lord in the splendor of His holiness.” ~Psalm 29:2