Twenty years ago author Dr. Gary D. Chapman wrote a book entitled The Five Love Languages. This bestseller has since revolutionized the way that thousands of couples relate to one another (including me and my husband). Five years later he released a version of this teaching specifically geared towards parents and children called The Five Love Languages of Children. I consider this a must-read for any parent. Dr. Chapman’s research and insight provide valuable information that any parent can use to build and improve relationships with their kids. If you haven’t already read this book, then please consider adding
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Perhaps you’ve never heard that word “knower” before today. I’m pretty sure you won’t find it in any dictionary. So what does it mean? When I use the word “knower,” I am referring to that little inner voice that guides us throughout the day. Instinct, intuition, leading of the Holy Spirit… I just like the term knower because I think it is an accurate description of how this functions. My knower lets me know when things are going well and alerts me when there is something or someone I need to give my attention to right away. (I also like
Dad, Daddy, Da-da, Papa, Pop, Pa, Father… no matter what name you call him, he is an incredibly important partner in the parenting team. Unfortunately, over the past several years, there has been a steady decline in the value of fathers in our society. Dads as characters in television shows and movies are often portrayed as incompetent or even unnecessary. Men are frequently referred to as “sperm donors” who have no other real function when it comes to raising children. What a sad situation we are in, especially since this was not God’s design. God’s plan is for children to
Parents do a variety of things to protect their children: childproof the home (inside and out), use car seats, monitor food and small toys for potential choking hazards, hold hands with the child when crossing the street, check references for childcare providers, teach “stranger danger,” learn first aid and CPR, etc. But one of the most important things we need to be doing as parents comes from the book of Proverbs, chapter 4, verse 23: “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.” Just as our children are dependent on us for their natural needs,
“Our character is basically a composite of our habits. Because they are consistent, often unconscious patterns, they constantly, daily, express our character…” ~ Stephen R. Covey “A man who gives his children habits of industry provides for them better than by giving them fortune.” ~Richard Whately “We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence, then, is not an act, but a habit.” ~Aristotle If the above quotes are any indication, our daily habits are extremely important. As parents, we need to be diligent about helping our children develop good habits. Again, this is one of those things that must